Financial strategies for raising a family

Raising a family can be a wonderful but also stressful time. According to The Guardian Study of Financial and Emotional Confidence™, 20% of working Americans feel overwhelmed daily, and parenthood can add to this feeling.¹

It’s expensive to have kids, but a sound financial strategy may help ease some of the stress of parenthood. You have questions, and we have answers to help put you and your family on a path to financial confidence.

How do I start planning for my family financially?

Take baby steps. Come up with a written plan. You can start with a simple budget, and then start to think about things like short-term and long-term savings goals, insurance coverage, investments, and an estate plan. When you’re ready, you can talk to a professional about taxes. Having kids may mean you get dependent tax breaks, which could help your bank account.

What if our children get sick?

New parents often worry about their child’s health and their ability to afford health care. Parents have one month from the time their baby is born, or adopted, to add them to their health insurance policy. Miss this important deadline and you’ll likely have to wait until the next open enrollment period. Don’t forget, once your baby is born, he or she has their own deductible. You may “max out” the deductible on mom during the baby’s delivery, but then if your baby needs extra care for some reason, you may incur additional expenses.

When securing coverage for your infant, it’s important to mind the “birthday rule.” This regulation, set by the National Association of Insurance Commissioners, dictates that a child born into a family in which both parents have insurance through their employers must take the plan of the parent whose birthday comes first in the calendar year as coverage; the other parent's insurance is considered secondary.² The plan of the parent with the earlier birthday will determine the deductible and coverage, but you’ll want to assess how much you’ll need to save for potential out-of-pocket medical costs, as well.

What if we get sick, or aren’t there to take care of them?

Disability insurance and life insurance can help protect your family if you’re no longer able to financially care for them; however, it’s important to know what you have and if you need more.

Stay-at-home parents should also consider life insurance. In 2021, the value of stay-at-home parents’ work was estimated at $184,820.³ If something happens to a stay-at-home parent, would you be able to afford full-time care and other help to replace all the tasks those parents do?

What if both parents pass away?

It may be difficult to think about, but it’s also important to complete an estate plan and write a will that legally designates a formal guardian and a fiduciary for your children. In the unlikely event that both parents pass away, you want to be the one deciding who should raise your children, not a state court. While a guardian is responsible for providing food, shelter, clothing, health care, and education to a minor, they’re entitled to reimbursement of the costs. A fiduciary (such as a trustee or guardian of the property) is appointed to manage a child’s property and must distribute it for the minor’s support. You can designate the same or a different person(s) to be your child’s guardian and/or the property fiduciary. You should also consider creating a trust for your children to ensure sufficient funds throughout their guardianship.

Since the primary duty of your children’s guardian is to act as a surrogate parent, it’s important that they not only have the financial means to raise a child, but also share an emotional bond.

What if we get blindsided by an unexpected expense?

Unexpected expenses can be common with the addition of a new baby. A family member may have offered to provide childcare, then circumstances changed and you needed to pay for a licensed provider. Or maybe you planned to nurse your baby exclusively, but then decided to use formula instead. To prepare for the unexpected, families should have enough savings to cover six months of expenses at a minimum, but financial professionals ideally recommend having savings equivalent to a year’s worth of your income.⁴

What if we can’t afford college?

If you plan in advance, you can start saving for college while your kids are still young. And while you can always borrow for college, you can’t borrow for retirement. If you’re getting near retirement age, focus on funding your retirement first, then save for college. A financial professional can help determine a suitable plan of action to fulfill your retirement and your child’s future.

Life with children is a rollercoaster ride. Working with a financial professional can help you navigate all your investments and expenses, from budgeting for your children’s basic expenses to creating their college fund. A sound financial strategy can put your nerves at ease — so you can treasure every moment and enjoy watching your children grow up.